Nobody cares that you're a dude who "would never sexually assault someone." all that matters is that you die never having done it

of course complicity is just as bad. it's not "almost as bad" it is "just as bad". it is

can't help but feel that when some of the ppl that are vocal "allies" with an emphasis on making themselves sound Virtuous their endgame is really to make themselves appear less threatening by reminding them of the very real fear of male-inflicted trauma, which is gross

why should a woman feel better about hanging out with you because you said you'd never sexually assault someone? do you realize how dumb you sound? it's not a hypothetical for women

judge me by my actions and not by this thread. that's the takeaway here.