Hi. I& #39;m being accused by an old friend of being an abusive person because I told them that I wasn& #39;t ready to enter into a relationship with them at that point in my life and they then attempted to kill themselves based on that information. https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="👨‍⚖️" title="Man judge" aria-label="Emoji: Man judge"> I just thought you all should know.
This person was my friend. We became close, we both flirted a lot. But I decided against a relationship. I even tried to mend the friendship but they could not handle that. Now I& #39;m getting accused of stalking and harassment. Those are lies and a manipulation tactic. No attacking.
The only harassment there has ever been is from their side. If you are going to buy into cancel culture, make sure to get all the facts. I am calm and collected because I know I have nothing to worry about. I will not name them and I will not perpetuate that kind of behaviour.
I sure hope they continue to share the emails of me trying to make amends and not lose my friend. https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="🤷‍♂️" title="Achselzuckender Mann" aria-label="Emoji: Achselzuckender Mann">
It sure is interesting that people who gather both sides of the story begin to notice that this persons behaviour is completely uncalled for. I& #39;m not here to attack. I& #39;m just here to give people clarity since the story everyone has heard is full of holes and inconsistencies.
I just want to reiterate something quickly. It is not about choosing sides. It& #39;s about gaining all the information from both parties and then making a choice for yourself based on that information. The other party has been setting ultimatums and pushing people. I refuse to do so.
Do you all remember that time somebody kept sending people in my stream a video about the person in question shaming me? That happened to me two days in a row, but I suppose that isn& #39;t considered harassment. https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="🙄" title="Gesicht mit rollenden Augen" aria-label="Emoji: Gesicht mit rollenden Augen"> I hope you all find the highlight because it& #39;s very easy to disprove.
I should not have to say this, but hearsay and conjecture are not admissible forms of evidence. Truth does not belong to the one who shouts the loudest. If you& #39;re so quick to judge others based on what is essentially gossip then honestly I don& #39;t want to associate with you at all.
I recieved a message written by a streamer who had banned me based purely on hearsay a few months ago. I never replied. Emotionally based actions such as that speak volumes about a persons character. This is what cancel culture inherently leads to. Learn the facts and then act.
Oh another person has decided to come forward. I guess they left out the part where they had developed feelings for me so I distanced myself every time they started sending heartfelt messages my way. Because I don& #39;t want a relationship. https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="👏" title="Applaus-Zeichen" aria-label="Emoji: Applaus-Zeichen"> I say it everyday in fact. Imagine that.
Firstly I was being judged for caring too much. Now I& #39;m being judged for caring too little. If people are going to develop feelings for me then it would not be in my best interest to give them the wrong idea, would it? So I would distance myself to protect their feelings. Growth.
This argument can not be based solely on me having feelings for another person. I have never denied that fact. I was just not emotionally ready to jump into a committed relationship and no amount of manipulation would have changed my mind regardless of how low I was pushed. https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="🤷‍♂️" title="Achselzuckender Mann" aria-label="Emoji: Achselzuckender Mann">
You can not tell someone to leave you alone and then attack them every other week. You simply can& #39;t. This is the first time I have ever defended myself against these attacks because I wanted some time to pass by so this person could heal. But now I see that it& #39;s become malicious.
I wonder what would have happened if I had said yes instead of no. If two people enter into a relationship and then break up later based solely on personal feelings, is that abusive?

I broke someone& #39;s heart. This is true. I am very sorry. But I don& #39;t see how that is abusive.
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