I once warned a tinder date that I have pretty severe ADHD & he went "umm no you don't, sweetie, doctors feel the need to medicalize people who think outside the box". Then, after I rambled for 2hrs straight, he looked like an exhausted husk & it was like yeah, exactly, fuck you.

I don't bring it up to be like "teehee so quirky", it's me trying to explain: we're devices running on different operating systems, e.g. I'm Android, you're iOS. Expecting me to run like an iPhone doesn't do you any favors, nor does it make sense to deny Samsungs exist. Ta-da.