I once warned a tinder date that I have pretty severe ADHD & he went "umm no you don& #39;t, sweetie, doctors feel the need to medicalize people who think outside the box". Then, after I rambled for 2hrs straight, he looked like an exhausted husk & it was like yeah, exactly, fuck you.

I don& #39;t bring it up to be like "teehee so quirky", it& #39;s me trying to explain: we& #39;re devices running on different operating systems, e.g. I& #39;m Android, you& #39;re iOS. Expecting me to run like an iPhone doesn& #39;t do you any favors, nor does it make sense to deny Samsungs exist. Ta-da.