I made a joke here one time many years ago about how people who are convinced they are great partners being like a person marking their own script. Of course you& #39;ll give yourself an A. If you have liver, ask your partner and tell them you& #39;re ready to hear the truth. See gbege!

Someone came back and told me they asked their partner and it turned to fight that they didn& #39;t know they had that many offences. See everybody is great at giving others feedback. Accepting it?? It& #39;s hard. I know. I struggle too. Thankfully they were able to work through it.

Partners lie to each other a lot. The resentment that slowly builds up is not worth it though. Being able to give and receive feedback, being able to separate the person from the issue, those aren& #39;t instinctive skills, they have to be learned. You even have to learn how to fight.

Long story short, the relationship you& #39;re experiencing & the one your partner is experiencing is not the same thing, even tho you& #39;re in it together. If you& #39;re not checking in, you& #39;re probably missing the mark. And if you& #39;re saying "why didn& #39;t they talk" you& #39;ve missed it for sure.

Found it. I& #39;m not sure why I recalled it as being a long time ago or as being a joke https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="🤷🏾‍♀️" title="Achselzuckende Frau (durchschnittlich dunkler Hautton)" aria-label="Emoji: Achselzuckende Frau (durchschnittlich dunkler Hautton)"> https://twitter.com/Gbemisoke/status/1048617050120364034?s=19">https://twitter.com/Gbemisoke...