so i have been kinda avoiding my dad for the past couple days, since he called me gene fucking simmons to my face in front of other people lol and i told my mom cuz i missed talking with her but
she got really defensive for him and said & #39;it has nothing to do with gender.& #39;
she got really defensive for him and said & #39;it has nothing to do with gender.& #39;
& #39;it has nothing to do with gender or anything& #39;
& #39;stop being so sensitive& #39; (literally the first thing out of her mouth when i opened up...)
& #39;yea, the rocker! you have a likeness to him& #39;
:))
& #39;stop being so sensitive& #39; (literally the first thing out of her mouth when i opened up...)
& #39;yea, the rocker! you have a likeness to him& #39;
:))
I then tried to walk out of the house after saying that it doesnt matter that he didnt mean to hurt my feelings, he still did; she got really angry and followed me out and started yelling at me that its not okay that i dont listen to her defend my dad for saying i look like a man
This is so fucking cool and not at all horribly painful and humiliating.
I wanted to say imagine having someone tell you that you look like a 60 year old washed up rocker from that one band, when you& #39;re really trying to look cute.
imagine defending someone who does that...
I wanted to say imagine having someone tell you that you look like a 60 year old washed up rocker from that one band, when you& #39;re really trying to look cute.
imagine defending someone who does that...
Its like
getting made fun of at school and going to a teacher to talk about it and they& #39;re like
no you see you just are too senstivie and you need to listen to me explain why it was okay that he called you a man to your face
getting made fun of at school and going to a teacher to talk about it and they& #39;re like
no you see you just are too senstivie and you need to listen to me explain why it was okay that he called you a man to your face
why is it always my fault when I get made fun of???
why cant i just ask for them to consider how i feel?
like please i wish my dad would just apologize why do they think they& #39;re above apologizing???
kinda just shows me that they dont respect me at ALL
why cant i just ask for them to consider how i feel?
like please i wish my dad would just apologize why do they think they& #39;re above apologizing???
kinda just shows me that they dont respect me at ALL
couple that with also i opened up about how scared i am about the trans medical rights thing to her and she said & #39;oh yeah, dont worry you& #39;re not far enough on; havent even changed your name yet."
at first i thought it was silly that she said that
now i realize that-
at first i thought it was silly that she said that
now i realize that-
She would probably, if i were to be taken into hospital for whatever reason, just tell me and them to think of me as a boy.
literally working against it. just like my dad
literally working against it. just like my dad
Another tangent of something my dad did after this, The next day i was going out to pick up some food and he yelled across the yard and asked if i could go and buy some burger buns.
I had just woken up and was passing (i guess) but i could get into my voice yet
I had just woken up and was passing (i guess) but i could get into my voice yet
i managed to choke out a little "i dont know" and then rush into the car and drive off. I felt so bad and so embarrassed and humiliated cuz all the neighbors can see and hear and dfhkmnfgmhfgkhm
started to spiral in the car and yeah that s not good
started to spiral in the car and yeah that s not good
I feel kinda bad about feeling bad about that but i think yall understand what this feels like.
this feeling is also really bad whenever im getting the groceries out of the truck, since our carport goes right up against the neighbors back yard, if my mom addresses me as a boy at any moment they will literally see me right there just aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa