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That& #39;s why it is a bit gross to see the superiority complexes some of these online people have when they talk about him.
Yeah, I get that suspecting all investors and bosses compared to trusting them is a stance to take. I wasn& #39;t born yesterday. https://twitter.com/AyaWPamungkas/status/1273501679732703234">https://twitter.com/AyaWPamun...
Yeah, I get that suspecting all investors and bosses compared to trusting them is a stance to take. I wasn& #39;t born yesterday. https://twitter.com/AyaWPamungkas/status/1273501679732703234">https://twitter.com/AyaWPamun...
But if you really exercise no criteria to differentiate or discern what seems to be at least a thoughtful move (if you refuse to let the word "caring" and "responsible" to be part of the dialogue when it comes to Bang PD), exactly why should I or others take what you say as the+
gospel truth again?
I don& #39;t have a good track record of believing people who have large blind spot issues within what they think is 100% persuasive and should be taken as the truth to the point they insult and disparage anyone for asking reasonable questions of credibility.
I don& #39;t have a good track record of believing people who have large blind spot issues within what they think is 100% persuasive and should be taken as the truth to the point they insult and disparage anyone for asking reasonable questions of credibility.
That& #39;s for a reason.
People can look all benign and generous, and speak eloquently about whatever they happen to be dependent on believing or greedy to have others believe.
But if it holds up terribly against reality and you have to keep generating new internal lies to keep+
People can look all benign and generous, and speak eloquently about whatever they happen to be dependent on believing or greedy to have others believe.
But if it holds up terribly against reality and you have to keep generating new internal lies to keep+
your version of the truth true...keep making an unfounded, and ultimately a poor or untrue assumption to keep up whatever you want to keep up...why even bother? what& #39;s really the end goal beyond maybe this illusion that you really know that much or are worth attention for all +
those dramatic and edgy lies? Or there is some kind of relational or monetary profit to you that most likely, you wouldn& #39;t want to share along with whatever else you& #39;d share because it would become super clear that you& #39;re not just here casually opining like other fans, you have+
an ulterior goal with a bunch of other people who are ultimately oriented around treating us like objects to deceive, manipulate, bully or somehow get money or clout from?
You see...I did get into all kinds of weird engagements with some users on here. Do you know what they kept telling me as a matter of persuasion to believe their points? Do you know how they talked about the rest of you?
I was being very polite when I said superiority complex.
I was being very polite when I said superiority complex.
And you know what& #39;s the most annoying about those kind of people?
They& #39;re so insecure but so interested in hiding it that they can& #39;t figure out how to come out of a conflict where they are in the wrong without attempting once to try to make you feel like trash.
They& #39;re so insecure but so interested in hiding it that they can& #39;t figure out how to come out of a conflict where they are in the wrong without attempting once to try to make you feel like trash.
Those who are fundamentally insecure and haven& #39;t learned better enjoy using tactics to try to make others insecure, even when those others actually have no reason to be.
What a cancer.
What a cancer.
Look. I like being someone who has compassion and empathy. I like giving tips and advice. I genuinely want people, even people who messed up and as long as they want to change, to be happier and figuring out how to thrive, each time after I meet them compared to the first time,
whether it& #39;s due to me or not. I don& #39;t enjoy seeing people undeservedly in pain, and I even don& #39;t particularly enjoy excessive pain in those who deserve some pain if it teaches them to correct on an aspect of their life. I get mad, but a revenge mindset is an unending quagmire.
I don& #39;t know if that makes me a "nice" person. If anything, I& #39;m someone who had just learned like anyone else from life experience and who weighs out what I want from my opportunities to decide. If I choose kindness, it& #39;s because I like the positive it& #39;s more likely to result in.
And if I see someone who treats kindness cheaply and clearly needs to be treated with something else for am ultimately better result, then I choose to be things other than kind. But it really is for me about doing the next best thing that is focused on hope for a good result.
There are no good results without the risk of some pain. Even to good people.
And to people who think they& #39;re so clever as they& #39;re hurting, lying, scamming and stalking people? For them to even realize how badly all their activities can turn out for them in the long run? They +
And to people who think they& #39;re so clever as they& #39;re hurting, lying, scamming and stalking people? For them to even realize how badly all their activities can turn out for them in the long run? They +
need pain to be the results of what they do...whether it& #39;s just the inconvenience of things not turning out how they wanted to, not getting the types of emotional or monetary leverage they want, having a harder time getting people to trust them or go their way, or having talk+
about what they have been doing as a trend finally catch up in a way that new people are alerted and can choose on their own what to avoid and what to encounter.
People who are too naive and just follow as truth anything a loudmouth on Twitter says, because it gives them a+
People who are too naive and just follow as truth anything a loudmouth on Twitter says, because it gives them a+
vicarious sense of superiority and solidarity? Also may benefit from some pain and disappointment.
Because pain is supposed to signal when you need to rethink what you& #39;re doing and not do it again. It is supposed to signal that maybe is something is off or else you just continue
Because pain is supposed to signal when you need to rethink what you& #39;re doing and not do it again. It is supposed to signal that maybe is something is off or else you just continue
thinking everything you& #39;re doing is all right when it& #39;s not.
That& #39;s why pleasure cannot be the only sensation in this world.
Too bad that so many people are focused on pain relieving without understanding that solving pain means focusing on causes, not symptoms.
That& #39;s why pleasure cannot be the only sensation in this world.
Too bad that so many people are focused on pain relieving without understanding that solving pain means focusing on causes, not symptoms.
We& #39;ve really become such poor solvers of problems as a result.
You& #39;ll never solve a problem at its core if you just numb the resulting pain that a problem produced.
But there are very few people where it profits them to tell you that.
You& #39;ll never solve a problem at its core if you just numb the resulting pain that a problem produced.
But there are very few people where it profits them to tell you that.
Problems at core between people are nuanced and complex, because people are nuanced and complex. How those kinds of things are best resolved are not so easily summarized for public consumption, no matter what anyone says.
You can& #39;t stop bad players from trying. You can only +
You can& #39;t stop bad players from trying. You can only +
hinder, discourage, report and punish them. But the core of that solution starts with you, the people who observe and the people who can get harmed. And that starts with growing the ability to discern and differentiate more than a little bit.
This is not about one person being
This is not about one person being
right and one other person being wrong.
Meaning...if you think I& #39;m tweeting this thread to say Bang PD is always right and the others who speak badly about him are always wrong, you missed the point of this thread and should try harder to discern what I& #39;m actually saying.
Meaning...if you think I& #39;m tweeting this thread to say Bang PD is always right and the others who speak badly about him are always wrong, you missed the point of this thread and should try harder to discern what I& #39;m actually saying.
One-note Johnnys fixated on saying anyone must be presumed 100% perfect or 100% nefarious, no matter how eloquent or dedicated they are, or no matter how they just engage in incessant and childish trashtalk, are just the ringmasters of a shadow puppet show going nowhere.
