I got my "start" in comics in high school. A vendor at a local con took a shine to me. It was classic grooming that thank god never went anywhere. I worked at his booth at events for years. That I was a cute, busty blonde (ish) wasn't even hidden as a reason. 1/
I spent as much time as I could at a my FLCS. Most of the dudes were cool. One definitely got smarmy. Again, nothing ever happened, but the prospect always loomed. 2/
When I did finally work at my first comic book store, I was a senior in high school, and it was at St Marks Comics. It was a miserable experience that lasted maybe eight weeks. Again, that I was hired for being cute meat wasn't any kind of secret. 3/
After college, my original FLCS started vending at that same original con where this story begins. I wore a Power Girl costume. It was my own, that I'd put together for the previous Halloween. I made the suggestion. 4/
A man stared at me. Blatantly, creepily. One of my booth mates stepped between us. THE GUY MOVED OVER.

I excused myself to the washroom, where I discovered my period had started. (not in the Dear Cosmo embarrassment column way, thankfully.) 5/
Relieved for that, and the excuse to do so, I got my street clothes and changed back.

The boothmate who tried to help me bought me an action figure. 6/
The boothmate and I had exchanged numbers for event day coordination purposes.

I don't recall the time gap between the Power Girl incident and what happened next. I'd say a couple months. 7/
Boothmate had asked if he could call me socially. I said that would great, please do.

He called at like 10am on a Sunday. I was asleep. I'd been out the night before, and when I woke up, I had a hangover. I staggered to the shower. 8/
When I got back to my room, I had at least a few voicemails, and a number of missed calls. All from Boothmate. I called him back and he was angry I hadn't answered. I told him it was early and I was hungover, and if this was how he behaves normally, to forget it. 9/
I got a Day Job (not in comics) soon after. The FLCS was fine at those shows without me.

I did end up dating a much older comics professional, but chasing young wasn't his MO, and dating older wasn't mine. 10/
That relationship had normal relationship problems, and ended amicably. But that's not what this thread is about.

It's the thank goodnesses and dodged bullets that are the topic at hand.

FIN
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