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This is the major assumption that put the marriage relationship at risk from inception.
Many of us believe that the butterflies feeling in our tommy is a conviction that we can tolerate each other excesses.
Unfortunately this is wrong.
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Many of us believe that the butterflies feeling in our tommy is a conviction that we can tolerate each other excesses.
Unfortunately this is wrong.
#Thread
In as much as Love should be the foundation of every intimate relationship, some factors are needed to be considered before taking the BOLD step that leads to a happily ever after.
These factors are unfortunately disregarded by majority of us during courtship.
These factors are unfortunately disregarded by majority of us during courtship.
Will I be right to say we don& #39;t understand what courtship are meant for or we get carried away along the line because of our emotions.
I have been told since I was 21 to always control my emotions with my brain and not the other way round which is what most people still do.
I have been told since I was 21 to always control my emotions with my brain and not the other way round which is what most people still do.
It was a bit late for me because I had lost my virginity and brought forth a child.
My emotions was in total control of my brain.
I disregarded every red flags. Both the conspicuous and underlying ones because "we were both in love"
It later had to re-traced my steps
My emotions was in total control of my brain.
I disregarded every red flags. Both the conspicuous and underlying ones because "we were both in love"
It later had to re-traced my steps
Marriage roots are deep!
Marriage is hard work, especially at the beginning so you should be prepared for the main deal while you are still dating.
Make use of your courtship to have important discussions that has to do with your future.
Enough of "when we get to the bridge
Marriage is hard work, especially at the beginning so you should be prepared for the main deal while you are still dating.
Make use of your courtship to have important discussions that has to do with your future.
Enough of "when we get to the bridge
We will cross it"
Talk about it now. You might need some technical strategies to cross the bridge easily or look for an alternate route.
Remember, your destination is a "Happily Ever After Matrimony"
No one goes into marriage thinking about divorce.
Talk about it now. You might need some technical strategies to cross the bridge easily or look for an alternate route.
Remember, your destination is a "Happily Ever After Matrimony"
No one goes into marriage thinking about divorce.
Factors like;
Religious beliefs should be considered. It is not enough that you are both Christians/Muslims.
Do you belong to the same denominations?
If No, what will happen after marriage?
You need to be clear on this.
Religious beliefs should be considered. It is not enough that you are both Christians/Muslims.
Do you belong to the same denominations?
If No, what will happen after marriage?
You need to be clear on this.
What about Lifestyle?
Is one of you an Extrovert/Introvert?
Glamorous/Classy/Simple/?
Extravagant/Prudent?
To mention but few.
I have get wives complaining about their husbands too extravagant while some says their husbands are stingy.
Is one of you an Extrovert/Introvert?
Glamorous/Classy/Simple/?
Extravagant/Prudent?
To mention but few.
I have get wives complaining about their husbands too extravagant while some says their husbands are stingy.
Have you discussed the number of children you both want to have?
Are you even sure your partner want to make children?
This is 2020, don& #39;t assume that it is everyone that get married that wants to make babies.
Are you even sure your partner want to make children?
This is 2020, don& #39;t assume that it is everyone that get married that wants to make babies.
What about financial responsibilities? I hope you know women now shoulder some responsibilities in the home front now?
Don& #39;t think it& #39;s a man 100% responsibility as the head of the house.
Talk about it now.
Don& #39;t think it& #39;s a man 100% responsibility as the head of the house.
Talk about it now.
This #Thread focus more on singles, if it pops up on your TL, kindly RT so we can get as many of them to read this.
The only way we can have a society filled with healthy relationships is to start educating ourselves and stop assuming people know what is right.
The only way we can have a society filled with healthy relationships is to start educating ourselves and stop assuming people know what is right.
