LMAO OMG WHILE WERE ON THE SUBJECT ABOUT CREEPY PREDATORY MEN:
my friend circle, we need to have a chat. (thread)
there is at least one guy i know y’all are all friends with. open secret he’s weird and creepy to girls who are in high school/barely legal. i met him bc he was like,

feeding my friend drinks at a conference and i finally took one from her clearly black-X-marked hand and was like STOP.

he’s been scolded, reprimanded, and lectured at by several people, multiple times not to hit on anyone before social events. during a conference a house rule

was that he couldn’t hit on anyone in the house. he still did. he was late 20s and still flirted with high schoolers, barely 18, super young 19yos (and other women too yes). he would send videos of sexual things (which i doubt the girl in the video knew he was sending around)

i am not the only one who has confronted him. i’m just the only one who seems to have actually put up or shut up and blocked him. it’s an open secret he’s a creep. every girl i know has a story about him even if it’s just like awkward laugh he was so weird gross uncomfortable.

and the guys we know? they’re like ah yeah that’s just how he is.

NO. you little assholes, NO. hold your friend accountable. is he gonna assault anyone? idk i fucking hope not. but you’re letting him get away with behavior that isn’t okay.

after i chewed him out i saw him like a month later irl and he told me “hey chad i wanna say like i’m sorry if you misunderstood anything i’d done and if u were offended but i’m gonna be better so maybe it’ll be clearer.” then he hit up my friends dm like that night being weird

a bunch of y’all will probably know who i’m talking about. some of y’all might know who i’m talking about. if this could be multiple people in your life maybe that’s a bigger issue than just one person and you should reevaluate friendships. don’t let people get away with it (end)

before i actually tagged @ChuckeEChaves directly for his inappropriate behavior i wanted to ask the girls if it was okay to post just in case there was blowback. since posting this thread, other girls have reached out despite the thread not giving a name bc they dealt w him too

if you’ve dealt w carlos or anyone else within the political sphere (either side tbh) being predatory by using their status over you, harassing u, trying to court you while you were underage, groom you, assault you, or anything else my inbox is absolutely open. you’re not alone.

@RAINN @NSVRC @CrisisTextLine are also very good resources if you’re in crisis or just dealing with the trauma of sexual misconduct, assault, or abuse. it’s not your fault these things happened to you and tbh chances are if you have a story someone else does too.