As someone who lost their virginity at 12 1/2 to a 16 year old who said “it’s not that big of a deal just do it” and I did because I was ..... twelve and a half, I have a real lack of empathy for men who still don’t acknowledge that kind of language and manipulation as a problem.

Also, years later I messaged the guy I lost my virginity to on Facebook saying “remember me? I lost my virginity to you” and he immediately blocked me. They know what they’re doing. They just don’t want to look at it.

What exactly are you saying