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Confronting predatory behavior by established professionals in our industry never going to be an easy conversation. It’s messy & uncomfortable, especially when the people we’ve looked up to, worked with or trusted are the predators. And we have a long road ahead of us.
Speaking from experience, it sucks to find out that a collaborator has abused women. It makes you feel betrayed, ashamed, somehow culpable. You look back and think, I didn’t see anything. Were there signs? How could I miss it? Am I guilty too? Your pride in your work is eroded.
I hate having whole books I’ve done that I avoid talking about anymore, but I assure you it’s even worse for the victims. We must listen to and believe women, even if it means a creator we admire, a colleague, or a person we thought was a friend is a predator.
I’ve seen people say twitter is not the place for this conversation— ffs. You think women want to relive their trauma in front of everyone including their abuser?! What is the alternative? Relying on whisper networks that never reach the most vulnerable of our community?
If you can’t stomach this conversation, odds are you won’t talk to your friend about his problematic behavior either. There’s enough guilt and blame to go around, & we’re all feeling it. Listen to victims of abuse. Treat them kindly, & remember their trauma doesn’t define them.
I wish I knew the best way to hold people accountable. A guild would be great, but it won’t cover everyone, and even my online peer groups have leaks that make it hard to discuss sensitive topics.
I might not know how we get there, but we can start by being more empathetic.
I might not know how we get there, but we can start by being more empathetic.
The comic industry is so small, you’re 2 degrees from anyone no matter who they are. That’s enough reason to be kind. So if you see me at a con, if you’re out there making mini comics (I see you!) or working on a pitch, know that I consider you my peer. You have my respect 
