I am afraid I belong to that small minority who has no hate for either the Chinese or Pakistani people.
I do believe though that this Chinese government is the most dangerous government in the world with frightening absolute despotic power in the garb of socialism ...

..and the current Pakistan government is like almost every other since independence, almost totally controlled by the armed forces.
It's easy to say that if the citizens are essentially peaceful, they can throw out these governments, but it doesn't really work that way.

It's not easy to throw out 'socialist' dictators or military leaders.
So save your anger for those who in power who revel in these border games while soldiers on the front kill each other. The average Chinese is probably just as worried as you about everything that's happening