Here's what I do, and what subsequently you will learn to do.

In order to be an effective man, you need to have complete dominion over you faculties - your mind & body.

I will teach you how to own thought, feeling, action and the inception of the present moment of your being.

Let's start where you will end - destiny.

Working backwards from destiny, meaning, purpose or anything synonymous with goals or your desires, know this:

A man's character or 'game-piece' is the vehicle that moves towards his aspirations.

What determines a man's character?

Simply, you can know a man intimately if you have knowledge of his habits.

What an individual does every. single. day.

Without failure to execute.

If a man is a building - habits are surely the bricks.

How does man arrange a strong foundation of habits?

A word - Action.

While the unremarkable man uses knowledge for mental masturbation, the remarkable man embeds knowledge into practice.

That my friend is the distinction between intelligence and wisdom.

But where does action arise from?

The logos - words brother.

Not only do the things we say make us accountable, but they exist as the cornerstone to bend and shape physical reality to our means.

Choose them wisely.

But the most important prelude to words must be your thoughts.

Abstract and intangible, thoughts exist as the first domino in the series of events that will conclude in your destiny.

This could be neuroscience or ancient Taoist philosophy:

"Watch your thoughts, they become your words. Watch your words, they become your actions. Watch your actions, they become your habits. Watch your habits, they become your character. Watch you character, it becomes your destiny"

Lao Tzu