When an abuser realizes they can& #39;t have their way and get what they want out of you, because of what they did, they will undermine that very thing.

You are not the problem.
They are not the victim.

I& #39;ve dealt with this too much so recognizing it is too easy, now.

It doesn& #39;t get any easier to deal with, but it does get easier to recognize. Recognizing when somebody is attempting to gaslight me, maniuplate me, lie to me, they were all very important to me escaping them.

They are vital to learn how to do.

It& #39;s very important to remind yourself that a lot of the time, you are in control. You have the power to escape. I promise that when you do you will feel so much better for it.

There& #39;s no denying they may try and throw your reputation under the bus, but rise above it.

Others will soon realize what they& #39;re like, just as you did. They can& #39;t run forever.

Shitty people, abusers, and the like, will never win. Not unless you know how to deal with them, as I have countless times before.

Stay safe, recognize the signs, and run.