You may not have raped a woman, but you have catcalled, peeked at her in the bathroom, used your eyes to undress her, stood under the stairs to see her underpants, blame her for being raped,lie to sleep with her, spiked her drink. Y’all are enablers. Do not say “Not all men”.

You look away when you see a lady being assaulted, you know your friend is a rapist but “bro code”, you refuse to call rapists out, you indulge your friends when they say they would take it by force. You are an enabler. Do not say not all men. You all are responsible.

You arrange for girls for your friend to forcefully have sex with them, you slut-shame girls even after forcing yourself on her, you say “my friend can’t do this”, you tell your friend to deny any accusations levied against him no matter what. You all are the same.

You say “Pray for a Rapist”, You worry about the mental health of a Rapist, You say women should dress properly so they won’t get assaulted. You are all the same. You all enabled this Patriarchal society that only believes in taking things by force because they are so entitled.

You’ll coerce and threaten a woman before she reluctantly agrees to have sex with you. You’ll threaten to kick her out in the middle of the night if she doesn’t accept your sexual whims.

Start taking responsibility and call your fellow men to order. We are not sexual objects!