One isn't a 'real woman’ by acting, looking, or dressing a certain way. Rather, if you're a woman, and you act, look, or dress a certain way, then that’s how women act, look, and dress.

Women existing define women’s existence. Otherwise gender stereotypes become gender roles.

Literally exhausting watching cis women declare themselves feminists while in the next breath pointing out how trans women can't be real women because “real women don't [insert behave/dress] that way.”

Seems to me terfs prefer projection of their internalized misogyny onto us.

terfs define women based on their oppression, their body's anatomy and its functions, and their ableism, all of which is antithetical to modern feminist movements to literally decouple womanhood from bodies and their abilities to functionally match female sex stereotypes.