I got an IUD today. It was very painful. You may or may not know I had an unplanned pregnancy and a miscarriage. I'm talking about this because I want to emphasize the fact that female is the physical reality of being female, not an identity.

One cannot identitify as being female any more than one can identify as being a different race or a differenet age. It's a physical, biological truth. To claim otherwise is abject misogyny.

Female biology can be chaotic and traumatic, at times. This is something a male can never fully comprehend. In other words, men: stay in your fucking lane.

I feel that women need to talk about our biological reality even more. A lot of men seem to reduce femaleness to holes they like to fuck. We carry 100% of the reproductive burden. Men have no right to redefine what being female means.

And this very much goes out to gay men who call each other she and her. Stop hijacking our language. You're MEN.