I have a cousin in pak who’s *very clearly* gay but my family is in denial and he’s been through 3 divorces and every single time they find a way to blame the woman... like?? ur son likes dick ma’am

Obviously I’m aware that gay Muslims go through a lot of personal conflict with their identity BUT- my cousin doesn’t HAVE to keep getting married to women and ruining their lives bc he’s a well established doctor who lives alone. He has a responsibility as a man.

If he was financially unstable or was facing physical abuse from family I’d understand giving into the pressure. But he’s a fully grown man who makes a decent living and lives on his own. He doesn’t depend on his family. So why tf is he constantly ruining the lives of women??