PSA: If you bring up black on black crime, accuse someone of race-baiting/using the race card, or complain about the riots not being civil in conversations about
brutality, you are gaslighting black people. Thank you.

You are telling them that their experiences are not valid by doing this. If a white person commits a crime, that does not dehumanize every white person. And it should not. Why isn't this the same for every demographic?
As for the riots/looting: see my recent Tweets, and this thread: https://twitter.com/brokeymcpoverty/status/1266104126942908416?s=20
And yes, rich Black athletes/people CAN relate. Many have been through this kind of thing themselves, and maybe, seeing people who look like you being hurt might, hmm, implore them to speak up. (see Kaepernick)