I didn’t really wanna get involved in this stuff but I have a couple things I should say

1) unless you’re rlly close with the people involved, it’s probably a bad look to insert yourself into this interpersonal issue
2) writing long ass dissertations about what happened (1/2)

(2/2) without asking the steps they need taken to heal is borderline harassment
3) regardless of what YOU think is sexual assault, remember that trauma works differently for everybody
4) read everything both ppl have to say, it’s all important
5) believe survivors

I love all of you, even the ppl who have done things that don’t fall in line with the things I said this thread. just think a little and the community can be a better place. I’m muting this thread now <3