We all come from a form of dysfunction. We all have wounds, scars, things we don't find ideal about ourselves. But "fixing" them doesn't come in the form of another person. We CAN be lucky to find someone who can be our cheerleader, someone to be at our side

Someone who can hold our hand, be an ear, a shoulder while we figure out or heal ourselves. Someone for whom we'd do the same for. I believe you don't have to be completely healed to have a good relationship. As long as you aren't manipulating, controlling, lying...etc

As long as love, passion, attraction, communication, support...etc is reciprocated it can work. And work it will be. We won't ever be 100% perfect. But your issues are essentially yours to work on. Its just icing if you find someone along the way to be at your side.