this is a warning to all women in the houston area: aidan cole stock ( @thestockersaid) is a narcissistic abuser. he targets young women. he beats them and manipulates them in order to exercise control over them. he is a very violent and dangerous person. (1/13)
i was in a relationship with aidan for two years until 2018. during this time, i was beaten in public, strangled in bed while family slept in the same room, and nearly had my car swerved off the road. keep in mind, the examples listed above were NOT one time occurrences. (2/13)
aidan stock will not hesitate to harm someone if he feels the need. his reasons range from having a disagreement, being in the wrong and accused of it, or if he is simply in a bad mood. he has even threatened to go on shooting rampages in order to manipulate his victims. (3/13)
if all else fails and the abuse is not producing favorable results (i.e. the woman gives in and begs him to stop), then he will resort to hurting himself and deluding others into thinking he is the victim. (4/13)
obviously, many women would not want to be with someone who abuses them. to remedy this, aidan will hit himself, threaten to cut himself, or even put his head through a wall. these are all things i experienced. (5/13)
this incites pity as he whines about how he hates himself for being the way he is and how he wishes his brain wasn’t broken. DISCLAIMER: his brain is not broken. he is highly aware of what he is doing and is in full control at all times. in full control of YOU. (6/13)
through this manipulation, he turns the situation on its head and forces the woman, who has just been beaten for hours, to “save” him from himself. afterwards, he apologizes and promises that he will never do it again and will go seek professional help. the cycle repeats. (7/13)
over the course of our relationship, aidan would abuse me an average of two times a month. some months would be noneventful and pleasant, some months would be days upon days of beatings. (8/13)
i have been kicked, punched and slapped. he strangled me dozens of times, even to the point of losing consciousness. a terrifying fact about strangulation, which i learned after our relationship, is that it can cause death up to days, weeks, or months after the event. (9/13)
furthermore, crime data states that strangulation in domestic abuse cases is almost always a precursor to homicide. every day, i consider myself immensely lucky to have survived our relationship and still be alive today. (10/13)
there are many things wrong with aidan stock besides his temper, such as his affinity for younger women and posting nude photos of women online without consent. however, my concern is, first and foremost, for the physical safety of women who come into contact with him. (11/13)
ever since i ended our relationship, a cloud of guilt has hung over me. i know who he is and what he is capable of. with this knowledge, i feel a responsibility to share my experiences in hopes that it might help other women stay safe. (12/13)
even if this thread only reaches a few people, at least they will know the truth. that’s all i can do. i’m sick of knowing he’s out there, committing the same atrocities that changed me as a person so greatly. let your friends know. keep those you love safe. (13/13)