In some cases, with certain people, after constantly facing unrequited love they’ll eventually (through inner work) dismantle the clingy chaser mentality.

They’ll be swung from being the one constantly being rejected to the one having to be rejecting others. It’s an unfamiliar place, having to be the one to say “no thank you” when you were always the one on the receiving end.

You’ve found you. You now embody wholeness, and your heart is open. There’ll be people stopping by who just don’t fit, and you know this, and you have to be your own spokesperson and say “this is flattering, but it just doesn’t fit”.

It won’t feel nice at first. Because making room for the comfort of others is your go to. Now you get to choose. The mismatches happening aren’t coincidences. It’s to see just how bad you want to choose what’s right and walk away from what doesn’t.

With this in mind, be graceful with your delivery. Be authentic from start to finish, let your words land in a gentle manner, your no’s might sting but it’s the intention that matters. They’ll be okay. I mean you went through the same thing and you turned out fine.

My, how the tables have turned. Have fun discovering what works and what doesn’t, and with everything handle these energies coming to you with respect, kindness and grace.