Once told a medium that doctors said I’m infertile but I have 2 kids and his response was “yes, you are infertile. Doctors were right but it’s your intentions to have children that helped you conceive them”

I think about that when I get into self-flagellation mode.

This is why I don’t participate in “financially I’m *insert negative comments about self here*” jokes. I’m very mindful of the intentions I speak over my life and myself.

I know how powerful my words and intentions are. I also know how stubborn I am.
Before specialists kept telling me I wouldn’t have kids I didn’t care for them. But when they said it’s impossible I said bet! That’s how I am with most things.