Am I a burger or am I a sheltered Muslim pakistani girl who's never been allowed to spend time in the real world and so my only real understanding of it comes from foreign content or through the lens of out of touch elite pakistanis.

My entire world view is second hand, pieced together through a myriad of sources but never experiencing anything first-hand.

I've spent most of my life surrounded by women who's access and presence to and in the world has also been limited so unlike my peers who might've picked things up form the the men in their family, I am truly lost lol because women only have comfortable access to limited spaces

And they're usually "burger" places or homes of other women so my only "real world" experience has been "gharelo" issues because those are inescapable as a woman so I am asking again am I a burger or am I just a pakistani woman