The desire for instant gratification is crippling some people. Never underestimate the calculated decisions taken by abadala. And never look to your neighbour as a timeline for liberation and freedom.

Here are some of the most common misunderstandings around healing.

1. Using money and material possession as a measure of success.

Too many people expect instant wealth after healing not understanding that our goal posts and those of abadala - are different. We make a big mistake of thinking that they are the same.

You are looking at the money you desire but they are looking at the foundation, the characteristics and the relationships around you. Because these determine the level of sustainability and continuity from generation to generation.

I understand this much better Now. I did not have the right professional relationships/friendships around me, which influenced the type of person I was.

When I was free spiritually, the wrong ones for me, could no longer stand to be around me. They left on their own.

2. Using your friend or colleague as a reference to determine the timeline for your success.

This is a common one. You and your friend can go to the same healer for the same problem. The treatment might even be the same but the prognosis will always differ.

This is because ‘Umsamo’ of both parties is different. And your trajectories are not the same.

Your friend could receive what you want now, because he/she needs it now. You are do not recieve it because you still require a further filtering process of your personal life.

3. Lack of fight even for the things you deserve.

You have to work. Work hard and fight for the things you want. Abadala will bring success to you, you have to go out and hunt for it.

There is a reason we say ‘ithongo lihamba phambili’ , because they are already on the journey and out there fighting for opportunities for you.

You need to join them and work with them. If you’re not working to your maximum potential why should they?

This is journey is a marathon, not a sprint. I hope these three points helped someone who is desperate for a breakthrough and is yet to experience one.

Makwande.