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i don& #39;t think it& #39;s "oppression" but i do think it& #39;s fair to give trans* ppl the breadth to express discomfort with certain kinds of porn because we /do/ have lived experience in dealing with people who project their fictional porn preferences onto us
i certainly am not fond of "cuntboy" "bussy" "boy pussy" etc because ive run into people who legitimately think this is how the world works
which is a stark contrast to most people in rotten-adjacent fandom who are very aware asses aren& #39;t self lubricating
which is a stark contrast to most people in rotten-adjacent fandom who are very aware asses aren& #39;t self lubricating
the other stark divide worth pointing out is that most run-ins with futa/etc fetishists have beenw with cismen. which. yeah.
are there women or queer folks who are into that/create that too? yeah of course. buuuut you can& #39;t blame folks for being wary--
are there women or queer folks who are into that/create that too? yeah of course. buuuut you can& #39;t blame folks for being wary--
--when the public face of the fetish tends to be cis men with terrible division between fiction and reality
like
i do not think it& #39;s an "either" "or" situation here where you can only be mad about trans healthcare and fetishism bc it affects our lives in real and tangible ways
i do not think it& #39;s an "either" "or" situation here where you can only be mad about trans healthcare and fetishism bc it affects our lives in real and tangible ways
again: contrast this to most responsible fujo-side folks who are at worst a little awkward instead of outright dangerous the way cismen are
I guess what im saying is trans* fetishism in hentai/cishet-directed porn is very different from fandom fetish works.
this stuff: caters to a dominant demographic who has demonstrated poor concept of divorcing fiction from reality. their bigotries are their j/o material
this stuff: caters to a dominant demographic who has demonstrated poor concept of divorcing fiction from reality. their bigotries are their j/o material
fandom: by and for women and/or queer people who generally have an awareness of what& #39;s real and OK outside the fandom bubble.
i mean obviously there are always outliers but that& #39;s been my experience and why i wanted to express my discomfort with the comparison in case that tweet starts getting legs around pro-ship adjacent twitter
