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I have this issue where I can pretty accurate determine if someone’s a P or a J through a dating app convo and I immediately want to stop talking to them when I get J vibes
And it’s because I can tell the conversatiom will be more... direct? honest? real? idk how to describe it. but my fear of vulnerability comes out and it makes me want to ghost them
the reality is I know a J is most likely what I need in my life based on what I crave in relationships and for some reason that scares the shit out of me???? ugh
the reason I gravitate towards NPs is because we talk nonsense and take nothing seriously and make jokes and I don’t have to be vulnerable 
