cw // emotional abuse, toxic household (1)

there’s a lot of shit people expect u to put up with when it comes to family. same comes to friends. coming from someone who used to treat anyone close to them like shit, ill tell u right now that u dont have to put up with annny of tht

cw // emotional abuse, toxic household (2)

its not normal for ppl to gaslight, threaten, expose and embarrass etc u, no matter how close u are, and even tho I knew my whole childhood that smthn wasn’t right i didnt realize it was emotional abuse until a couple of years ago

cw // emotional abuse, toxic household (4)

realizing that my whole entire life so much of the stuff that happened was so whack and not normal has been some of the hardest shit ive had try and heal from in my early adulthood

cw // emotional abuse, toxic household (5)

being the outcast is ok, not forgiving people for hurting u is ok, cutting someone out of ur life so u can heal and never turning back is ok, regardless of who they are to u, especially family.

cw // emotional abuse, toxic household (3)

in fact i didn’t realize it until someone called me out on my shit because i had been mirroring so much of the shit i had been exposed to w/out realizing it, wondering y people “just treated me horribly” all the time