Thread by @BoondockBaby, Okay, so I was standing in line at the Dollar Store holding [...]

Okay, so I was standing in line at the Dollar Store holding my pads and my chocolate because red death is upon me.

Dude and his girlfriend are bickering behind me. Dude legit asks her if she is on her period because she is being a bitch.

The girl shut up after that.--

First off, any man -ever- says that to me and I will slap him back to his daddy's ball sack. This girl just kinda of shut up.

So me being me, turned to look at him and called him an asshole. I held up my giant pack of overnight, heavy flow pads and my chocolate. --

Then said, even on my period I would smack you senseless if you were my boyfriend.

He kinda snorted, but wasn't brave enough to call me a bitch.

On the way out I yelled "sorry about you tiny dick!"

Which brings me to this talk!

Men vs Boys.

How do you tell the difference? Momma Boo is here to help you. Because there are some women out there that will take shit, thinking they have a man, when they have a boy. They think this is how a man acts, but in reality they have a fuck boy situation!

Lets go!

Boy - Grossed out by periods. Will literally make a big deal if they even have to look at while you are literally bleeding from your vagina for 4 to 7 days. Will ask you if you are on your period if you are angry. Grossed out being asked to buy pads or tampons.

Man - Even if grossed out, will keep it to himself. Will understand you are bleeding because you literally can grow a fucking person. Are okay buying you what you need if asked. Will never ask you if you anger is from you being on your period.

Next one based on something that happened to me with an ex.

Boy - AGAIN, we are bleeding from a fucking orifice. God forbid if you accidentally bleed on something. Ya know, because we think that is so awesome. They will pitch a fit and rant. For real.

Good thing I had a man at this time.

Man - UNDERSTANDS. Knows it happens, blood happens. Probably won't even mention it, or if he does it is to just make sure you are okay. If it is in the middle of the night, he will help you clean up. Because gentleman.

Moving from the period stuff. Let us continue, because I am full of this kinda stuff today. Because momma is always opinionated and you know she will speak her mind no matter what.

Boy - Likes to be a victim. God forbid if you speak your mind. Speaking your mind gets answered with sarcasm or told that you are in a mood. You ask to talk and they give you the "oh God" line. Like oh no, she wants to talk and express herself.

Man - Listens. Yeah, knows you get pissed at nothing at times. Might argue back with you, but never makes you feel invalidated. Never plays as if he is the victim, as if wanting to talk to him means you are going to yell at him for something. Wants to work with you, not against.

Boy - Insecure in himself, which he will take out on you. He will invalidate things. You are angry or sad at something HE did. Your fault, because he is insecure and can't take responsibility for fucking up. Thinks you should just get over it. Speak your mind, you're a bitch.

Man - Owns up if he fucks up. Confident, knows how to explain himself and is okay with you saying "baby you hurt my feelings." Can calmly explain himself why he feels the way he does, without negating your feelings and making you feel guilty for having them.

Boy - Can not stick to a decision. Doesn't know what they want in life. These are the ones who fuck around, who will toy with your heart and will never see you are a person. They don't think about anyone but themselves.

Man - Makes a choice, stands by it. May not know exactly what they want in life, but each choice they make, they stand by it. Will see you as a person. Thinks of you as a person and knows you have feelings and will never toy with them.

Let's move on to what happens in the bedroom yes? Because we need to know the difference here too! Because why the fuck not!

Boy - Wants to be dominate. May even tell you to call them daddy. More about them getting off than you. Probably thinks eating pussy is gross, or just shoves his face there and it is like a fucking eel. Let's you finish yourself because they already busted their nut 5 minutes in.

Man - Can be dominate. Knows submission needs to be earned, wants to gain trust enough for you to submit to them. Knows the art of eating pussy, legit can have you speaking some forgotten language. Knows how to get you off, maybe even more than once. Can endure!

Boy - Horny all the time and can not tell when you are not in the mood or gets angry if you are just not feeling it. May just and make you feel bad to make you give in. Might even nitpick because god forbid they have to handle themselves.

Man - May be horny a lot, but if you aren't in the mood, are okay with handling themselves. Won't push it and will never make you feel guilty about just not being in the mood. Can take the hint of "I don't want to fuck you right now."

Now that we covered men vs boys a bit.

Guys, Momma has you too. Some of y'all are dealing with a girl, not a woman. So let Momma help! She is here for you!

Girl - Gives women a bad name. Finds everything to fight about, will drag your ass in a heartbeat. She will make you question yourself and your actions. Everything is always your fault. Even if you are innocent. Will call you names, throw things in your face.

Woman - Will fight when she feels she has been wronged, she will speak her mind, but also knows when she is in the wrong. She will admit it. She will validate your feelings, if hers are validated as well. May call you an asshole. Will never throw things in your face.

Girl - Will tear you down if you dare speak your mind. Will tell you that you are being an asshole, even if you are trying to explain yourself. The smallest fuck up will have her jumping your ass like there ain't no tomorrow. Will degrade you.

Woman - Listens. She will listen to how you feel, yeah there may be an argument, but she will want you to speak your mind and be honest. She knows you may fuck up, because she knows she fucks up as well. Will love you regardless.

Girl - Will be all about her, she can't see past herself to see if you are hurting. Is prideful. She can't see things are a two way street. You take care of her, she thinks she is entitled, but gives you nothing back. Will get pissed off if you need her to be the strong one.

Woman - Knows when her other needs her. She can set her pride aside and is able to see if you are hurting. She is willing to take on what you need her to, if you need her. Relationships are 50/50, but sometimes a queen has to step up and protect and tend to her king.

Just like with boys vs men in the bedroom. Let us talk about girls vs women.

Let's go!

Girls - Greedy, just like with boys, all about themselves. What they want and what they need. Fuck what you want and need, or of they do they half ass the job. Settle for the boys of the world, wouldn't know what to do with a man.

Woman - Yeah, like their orgasms, but will always make sure you get yours too. Wants to know what you want and what you need. Know now to handle a man, because they don't tolerate boys. Will leave you wanting to worship the ground she walks on.

Girl - Just as a boy doesn't know what to do with a sexually strong woman, a girl doesn't know to do with a sexually strong man. She is at a loss and may think he is just being an asshole, but if he is a man, I promise you isn't. He is just confident.

Woman - Can take on a sexually strong man, just as he can take her on. She will make him work for her submission or enjoy fighting him for control. Either way, it is fun for both parties. Everyone gets off, maybe even more than once.

Girl - Will leave you hanging. She will fuck with your head. She will make you think this is what you deserve. She can't make a choice and stand by it, and I don't mean what to wear or eat (that shit is hard!). Doesn't know what she wants in life.

Woman - Will tell you straight, will be honest with you. She knows who she is and what she deserves, she will make sure you know you deserve the best as well. She will stand by whatever choice she makes and make you confident through her confidence.

Girl - Just like boys, she will always think you are cheating. She is insecure, so she will bring you down too. She can't see what she has. She can't see You can treat her like a queen, and she will treat you like a bum on the street.

Woman - Knows what she has, just like a man. She is confident in herself and ain't worried about you cheating. She knows she is enough and knows it is her you are coming home to. Will treat you like a king, as long as you got her back and are treating her like a queen.

This concludes this thread.

The point is, know what you want. Be confidence and never settle for less than you deserve. Be strong willed, be sassy, be sarcastic, but never settle for less.

The men and women of the world, they will treat you right. They will lift you up.--

They will love and encourage you. They will show you what it is like to be loved in all the right ways. They will dry your tears and mend your hearts.

They will never ask you to be anything other than you. They will never tear you down or make you feel you are invalid. --

Real men take care of their women, and women return the favor.

So like I said, don't settle for anything less than amazing. Because you deserve to be loved, respected and cared for in all the right ways.

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