In the wake of Amy Cooper and George Floyd, I just wanted to address some thoughts I have on racial injustices in America. A friend of mine (white female) asked me this morning how she can join the conversation/ movement in a respectful and impactful way. Here’s what I said:
Firstly, if you’re white and are just as outraged as black people about the injustices that occur daily in America... yes! Thank you! Now let’s use that outrage for good.
So the first thing I suggested was to use her voice. Unfortunately, me, as a black female, protesting and attempting to educate the masses about my experience isn’t taken seriously. It doesn’t have the same weight.
Anyone who knows me knows I’m very passionate about black issues but I’m often reluctant to speak out because I may appear bitter or I may be labeled as “that person.” But when a white person speaks out, it does something different.
For one, it opens up a conversation about racial injustice in predominantly white spaces. We need this! I want all-white crowds to reflect on race relations in America and to speak honestly amongst themselves on how and in what way they can make a difference.
The 2nd thing it does is force white Americans, particularly those who may be stuck in the middle, to rethink how they may perceive race relations in America.
If you’re white, and you find yourself often justifying the deaths of unarmed black people, I just ask that you reflect on why that is. And if you’re a white person and you have a friend like that, try speaking to them about why that may be problematic.
So some things you as a white person can do daily: speak out on your social media against overt and systemic acts of racism. Rally on your campus. Talk to and educate your mom, dad, sister or bff who may be be stuck in the middle (or on the wrong side of history)...
... Be a voice for black people when we’re not in the room. Better yet, invite us to the room.
Lastly, stop waiting for innocent black lives to die before making a statement. Be proactive. If it hurts your heart to see these constant acts of violence on the news, imaging how we feel. #BeingBlackinAmerica
Oops **imagine**