But I get asked very very frequently THIS question:

why am I having trouble meeting good subs etc?
here's something to consider, in a nutshell

whatever u are doing NOW is not working. you have to change something you already do OR add in something new. upgrade yourself somehow

So here is a great example of some advice Id give to that question

dommes come to me saying (paraphrased) things like "so and so makes more money than me and Im a great domme"
ok this THINKING is already a mistake

then I go LOOK at same dommes tweets etc.
first of all theyre very repetitive. this is ok, cuz its her STYLE I guess, so okay whatever.
but like half of the tweets are talking about how others dont domme as good or how others wont be able to satisfy etc

WHY SO FOCUSED ON DOMMES?

my advice is to alter focus.

dont think youre focused on the other women in the scene?
is twitter your MAIN way of promoting yourself?
go look at your tweets...
how many in the last, say, 100 are referencing dommes?
point is, it's an "off" focus

now mind you, this is not one specific person I am talking about. this is something over the last few years Ive been asked many times.

frequently the ppl asking cant SEE what theyre doing. and then when they ask refuse to see it still lol