I think one thing that pushed me away from the more radical trads is they clearly hate everything I am. A working single woman in her 30s.

I don’t like it either but I still think Christ loves me anyways though I don’t deserve it.

Just sucks to see yourself reflected that way

I didn’t convert young enough to avoid messing up my life. I wasn’t in a position where I could afford to just get married and have babies when I was 22. And I have to work now too because I don’t have any kind of family wealth. But amazingly I’m still assured Christ loves me

It’s easy to make a lot of statements on how things ought to be. That women should be SAHMs, that we should get married early, have big families, etc. but life is messy and complicated and often doesn’t work out that way. Don’t sinners deserve our friendship and support more?