THINGS YOU KNOW ABOUT LADIES WHICH ARE NOT ENTIRELY TRUE.
There are certain mindsets which unfortunately, most guys have concerning ladies.

And before any strategy I share with you, can work for you. You have to squash those mindsets.
This is the reason I’m making this post.
So Please, I will like you to read this post with an open mind.
Okay? Good!

1) Ladies are only after the Money:
I remember one cool evening back in my university days. I was with one my Gees; we were just outside the lodge, feeding our dear eyes to relieve some
Campus stress (that kind thing nah).

Then a 10/10 passed, my friend exclaimed;
“Gee!!! Just look at this perfect creation.”
“Yeah bro! She was definitely created on Sunday” I replied, nodding in agreement.
Then I added, “Go and talk to her nah”.
He stole a glance at her again, and then said to me with a low uninspired voice;
“Gee, this girl na money nah… I never get money, I never get car nah”

I thought to myself, “He has already concluded without trying, just based on assumption”
And just like my friend, a lot of guys have assumed that ALL you need to win a lady over is Money.

Okay, so you use your money to win over this girl… So what’s going to keep her? More money?
Lol! I’m pretty sure there will always be men that’ll have more money than you.
So that mindset will only make you ‘insecure’, because you know that a lady will always meet guys with more money than you.

Don’t get me wrong, all other things being equal, a lady will choose a richer guy over a poorer one. But all things are not always equal nah.
LISTEN TO THIS;
Most ladies may claim they want rich guys (as you claim you want ladies with a perfect face, big ass & ‘brezz’) but they (ladies) end up dating and marrying men within their social class (as you’ll probably end up dating and marrying one ‘lekpacious flat screen’
lol).

See ehh, the thing is;

You can use only money to get a girl’s body, but you can’t use it to capture her soul.
You need more than money to do the latter.
And if you want a lady to be devoted to you, to be loyal to you like Cookie is to Lucious in Empire or as Tasha is to
Ghost in Power.
You need to capture her soul and only money CANNOT get that for you.

However, the only group of ladies that you ONLY need money to win over, are the ‘less privileged ones’.
Not necessarily the ones from poor backgrounds, but the ones with poor mentality.
That’s why I stick with classy ladies with independent mindset, because I know that;
“All ladies have vaginas, but not all have a functional brain”.
I advise you to do so too.

And I know that you know that what am saying is the truth, because we all
have that one broke ass friend that is always dating only hot and pretty ladies.

So unto the next one!

2) Ladies are only attracted to handsome guys:
I see a lot of guys having low self-esteem issues because they think they’re not attractive enough to get
the lady of their dreams.
So they say to themselves “I’ll get lots of money, so that any girl I like will like me too”

Lol, it’s good that you want to have lots of money, who wouldn’t want to?
But let your motivation not be because you can’t approach beautiful girls;
because you think you’re not attractive enough.
So you now leave your attractiveness entirely on money and mere material possessions.

Brotherly, you’re just preparing yourself to be on the top Maga lists of every young girl you meet, when you eventually get the money.
LISTEN CAREFULLY TO THIS;
Being attractive to ladies is not all about having good looks. Having good looks is just 10% of what a lady finds attractive in a guy.
And fortunately for you, the other 90% can be controlled by you.
True, good looks will get you lots of attention from females, however when they come closer and realize you don’t have the other 90%. They will fucking leave!

I know you’re now curious to know what the other 90% is.
Lol!
I’ll tell you.
Physically, you can get more attractive to ladies by;
Having a good dress sense, good grooming, good posture, nice hairstyle and appropriate facial hairs (this one is optional, but it sure helps)
Psychologically, you can get more attractive to ladies by;
Having self confidence, being a good conversationalist, having a great sense of humour, maintaining the right eye contact, having a great dominance level and so on.
And as you can see, all these can be completely controlled and learned by you.

The only place, I think good looks matter much is on Social Media, because ladies notice your looks first, before your personality.
So get yourself a good dp and try to arrange an offline date ASAP and make her fall in love with your personality.

I’ll end this one with a quote, dating expert, Chase Amante wrote in one his articles
“Your looks matter less to her than hers matter to you”
3)Ladies don’t like the activities in the ‘Ozza’ room:
Just like guys, ladies also desire, enjoy and sometimes even seek out activities in the Ozza room.
Due to Religion and Cultural restrictions, especially around this part of the world, ladies are often
reserved towards these activities.
So they kinda do their things in a more low-key manner than guys.

Also their desire is dependent on certain parameters.
For example, their desire is highest during ovulation.
This is of biological significance,
because it increases the chance of fertilization. It is also dependent on their partner; ladies tend to have more desire for those activities, if their partner is a great lover.

So just get this in the back of your head, ladies desire and enjoy those activities like you do.
Some Scientists even claim they desire it more than men, though they’ve not been enough evidences to back this claim up. But you know what they say, ‘there’s an element of truth in every rumour’.
PS: I will stop here for now. I don’t want the post to get too long.
Any question? Feel free to ask!!!

Talk soon,
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