A fear I had when I was getting married was that my husband and I wouldn’t have great sex. This was because my husband had a lot of sexual experience due to his past life and I had no experience....1/6

I shared my fear with my husband and he told me that we would learn together. He assured me that what was most important was not experience but love and our ability to be patient and open with each other. He explained to me that sex was not a one size fits all kinda thing 2/6

because each individual has a different body and desires. So great sex in marriage happens not because of experience but because two people are willing to learn to understand each other.
We promised to talk openly with each other when it came to sex.3/6

Talking about sex in marriage can be really awkward because it requires a great amount of vulnerability. But because we wanted to get better we had to have these difficult awkward conversations. These conversations transformed our sexual life.4/6

It made me understand better what my husband desired and he understands my desires too. I used to be too shy to speak about sex but these conversations gave me the courage I needed to speak. They helped take my husband and I to the promised land https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="😂" title="Face with tears of joy" aria-label="Emoji: Face with tears of joy">https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="😂" title="Face with tears of joy" aria-label="Emoji: Face with tears of joy">https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="😂" title="Face with tears of joy" aria-label="Emoji: Face with tears of joy">5/6

I have learnt that great sex in marriage is a product of intimacy which consists of vulnerability, honesty, friendship and communication. In this video my husband and I share how we were able to build intimacy and friendship while we were dating 6/6 https://youtu.be/hPm6sPFCtZ0 ">https://youtu.be/hPm6sPFCt...