also may i just say, as a trans person, i hate dating apps.

anybody else? can we start a discussion. because they really do suck.

like i got two options here, set my gender as male and match with literally no one, or set my gender as female, even tho it’s wrong because at least then, i can find queer women who don’t care that i’m trans.

and if i set it as female.. i also risk matching with lesbians by accident which is a whole other conversation because i’m not tryna invade their space. WHY DOES THIS SUCK SO BAD

we could also discuss how most apps literally do not even have the option to identify as non binary. they be like choose your gender! non binary? ok! now pick if u wanna show up as a man or a woman!