Hello. This thread will be about Bibi @sinbst. We initially started compiling this information a month ago but given the recent events of people coming forward with their own experiences we have decided to publish everything now to help organize everything into one place.

Many people who have come into contact with Bibi have had negative experiences, from being obsessed with numbers regarding likes/follows/rts to racism, transphobia and unsolicited sexual advances. She has talked badly about other artists behind their backs when they +

got more exposure than her and would guilt trip people into giving her the reactions she wanted. Along with that she has used people’s deadnames against them and has purposefully made transphobic remarks/art. She has said some racist and problematic +

things as well about other people. She has a long history of sharing unsolicited NSFW content, including sharing NSFW content to minors despite knowing that they were underage.

Bibi works in a very predictable manner, as it has been confirmed by the 30+ people (at the time of posting this) who have come forward to talk about her behavior. She generally targets smaller, newer fanart accounts who are still getting into the community and may not +

know many people yet, and her follower count and time in the fandom helps establish her as a sort of “pillar” of the community amongst BTS fanartists.

She starts by messaging users privately, usually asking if they would like to see some nsfw art she’s drawing. Oftentimes this is done without checking if they are minors first, though it does seem that later on she starts by asking about age.

Our main concerns: community safety and helping the many, many people who have been affected by her actions.

All screenshots have been used with explicit permission of the people involved and all names/identifiers have been censored to ensure their privacy.

Censor bars with the same color are to denote screenshots from the same person to allow for better reading comprehension.

For the remainder of this thread, please note general content warnings for: racism, transphobia, sexual abuse, and manipulation.

From our understanding, this behavior has persisted for over three years, if not longer.

Long thread ahead.

Clout obsession:

During conversations with Bibi many of us noticed how she would constantly talk about how unsatisfied she was with the amount of likes and follows she had. She would also talk badly about other artists who +

get more exposure than her making statements like “they changed” and “the fame got to their head”. She would ask for critique to fish for compliments, but when people would give her advice and try to help her out regarding her dissatisfaction with numbers +

she wouldn’t listen or would brush it off and continue to victimize herself.

She constantly looks for ways to cozy up to bigger artists, or to lay claim to certain concepts and drive away other artists that she saw as competition.

Emotional Manipulation:

She would often emotionally manipulate us to the point we would think we were in the wrong by not giving her 24/7 attention, being uncomfortable with any of her advances or by simply having art with more likes than hers.

She continually tried to interact with minors who had softblocked her and would not stop without outside intervention. She admitted she preferred Instagram DMs because she could see who was online and when they were last active and monitor if they were ignoring her or not.

When she wanted attention but didn't receive it, she quickly accused people of lying and “not loving them enough” if they said they were too busy to talk. She got extremely jealous when other friends/artists were mentioned.

Transphobia:

In July 2019, Bibi asked “is it bad if i draw jimi with peepee and boobs” and then a week later uploaded a sexually explicit drawing to her original NSFW fanart account ( @Peachesnsins) that depicted Jimin with breasts. When many people pointed out how +

her fetishization of trans bodies was harmful she was quick to dismiss their valid criticisms as bullying. She was more concerned about people “ruining her image” than the fact that she actively hurt people.

Afterwards she appeared to go inactive on that account and later moved to a new NSFW account, @onesinningbee.

She has also repeatedly and intentionally deadnamed several people, to their faces.

Racism:

Bibi has mentioned multiple times that she hates QRTs on her artwork, but ESPECIALLY when the QRTs are in a different language, pointing out her frustration when people respond in Spanish/”Mexican”.

In September 2019 Bibi went abroad with her parents to visit her brother in Chongqing, China. While she was there she constantly complained and ranted about Chinese people in her DMs, even to her Chinese friends.

note: OP is Chinese

Unsolicited sexual advances:

Bibi would often start sexual conversations, show sexual artworks and send pictures of herself with no explicit consent - or even after being told ‘no’ several times. That type of interaction would often include minors.

She sexted people, even knowing they were under the influence of alcohol and unable to properly consent. She would instigate sexual behavior and sometimes become aggressive when turned down, or claim that they "didn't really care about her" to coerce them.

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If you read this whole thread and still want to defend Bibi:

"She’s mentally ill!"

Mental illness, like many other things, is an explanation for behavior -- not an excuse for behavior. If you hurt somebody, you are responsible for your actions, regardless of your mental state.

"She’s just hypersexual!"

Hypersexuality is, by definition, a dysfunctional preoccupation with sexual fantasy, often in combination with the obsessive pursuit of casual or non-intimate sex; pornography; compulsive masturbation; romantic intensity and +

objectified partner sex for a period of at least six months. No studies show that hypersexuality can affect one’s ability to get consent.

"She didn’t know what she was doing!"

She was told repeatedly to stop her abusive behavior, to leave people alone (see: softblocking behavior) and yet she has done little to change her ways. Instead she victimizes herself to others, saying things like +

“I love everyone ignoring me” and “[my friends] are not so enthusiastic to see me” to drum up sympathy without ever disclosing any context. She would constantly downplay the severity of her actions and dismiss any wrongdoing on her part by instead laying the blame on them.

"The victims weren’t clear enough when rejecting her!"

Some people do not like confrontation and prefer to actually leave hints to make the person understand when they have overstepped the person's boundaries instead of straight up telling them that they want them to stop. +

In a situation of emotional manipulation, it is EXTREMELY difficult to let go of a person or ignore them when they use pitiful arguments like "I feel so alone and I have no one" or "please don't leave me, you are my only friend".

"Why didn't people call out Bibi before?"

Bibi is a very big account (over +30k), which means she has a lot of influence; some followers might blindly defend her without knowing the context, which can also lead to harassment. The other reasons why this case have been silenced +

all this time is also because people that have been abused by Bibi felt too bad to talk about it, or felt like the problem only happened to them and didn't wanted to make a fuss about it (which is most of the time caused by her manipulative behavior).

"Aren’t you guys being too harsh? Have you guys tried talking to her in private?"

We may seem harsh, but we are doing our best to present this evidence as neutrally as possible. Our only goal is to warn people about Bibi's behavior. +

People have tried talking to her in private about her behavior and how damaging it is, but she did little to change as this problem has persisted for years now. +

Our goal is not to defame her but to spread awareness about what has happened and what has been happening and hopefully prevent others from being affected by her and others like her. Her actions are an issue of safety for everyone in the community.

"She’s just joking! You are taking her words too seriously/out of context!"

She has caused serious emotional and mental harm to many, many people. From the truly staggering amount of people who have come forward with personal stories about their interactions with her, +

this is NOT something that should be taken lightly. If you are so adamant about defending her, please examine why you refuse to listen to the voices of so many of her victims who have suffered from her actions.

There are many, many instances of things Bibi has said and done to other people -- far too many to count. A truly horrifying amount of people. The screenshots compiled here are truly the tip of the iceberg and is in no way comprehensive.

We will be doing our best to compile and include other people's experiences and share them. If we RT your tweet and you would like it removed, please message us and we will do so immediately, no questions asked.

If you would like to share your experiences anonymously, please use our curiouscat https://curiouscat.me/exposebibi  and speak freely. If you would like to share but do not want your cc to be published, please write DO NOT REPLY on your message.

If you or a loved one have experienced sexual trauma, please refer to this handbook of international centers for survivors of sexual assault and harassment, where resources are listed by country. https://headington-institute.org/files/international_centers_for_survivors_of_sexual_assault_45553.pdf

If you or a loved one are struggling with mental illness, please refer to this list of local emergency contact and informational resources, listed by region. https://checkpointorg.com/global/ 

If you were affected by Bibi, either directly or indirectly, you are NOT alone in this and there is a whole community of people here dedicated to ensuring that your voice is heard. We see you, we hear you, and we will continue to support you in any way we can.