I know most people won’t read this but allow me to rant because i’ve had ENOUGH
I don’t get it why SOME GUYS feel the need to comment on women bodies or the way we dress or how much makeup we wear?
Some guys i know love to comment on how i have become ‘fatter’, yes because i actually look like a freaking skeleton during high school
https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="🙂" title="Slightly smiling face" aria-label="Emoji: Slightly smiling face"> which was NOT normal. I was underweight.
I was 40kg during high school. I look like a skeleton. I remember there was this person who told me my fingers kurus sangat nampak macam rangka & nampak urat dekat tangan
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And yes i gained weight after SPM, and my BMI was normal at that time. But people said i look fat?
https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="😫" title="Tired face" aria-label="Emoji: Tired face"> gambar ni masa ambik result SPM, when i was 43kg. I was actually healthier. Tapi masa ambik result ni ramai cakap i dah gemuk
People really have no idea how much their words could affect others. I cried so much. And my weight fluctuated around 45-48kg in my asasi year. And it got worse during my degree
Masa degree pernah tak makan lepastu nak pengsan dekat luar. Nasib baik ada orang tolong
People used to comment on how chubbier my cheeks look that i used to hate them (but i kind of love them now
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And then in late 2018 to early 2019 i was at my heaviest — 53kg (it was the heaviest for me, not to offend anyone
https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="🙏🏻" title="Folded hands (light skin tone)" aria-label="Emoji: Folded hands (light skin tone)">) and masa ni memang ramai comment on my chubby cheeks
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Ada sekali tu sorang ni cakap kat depan orang ramai yang i makin gemuk. And semua orang pandang. Masa tu memang rasa nak nangis
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Please lah jangan mention orang tu makin gemuk ke muka makin jerawat ke
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https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="🙏🏻" title="Folded hands (light skin tone)" aria-label="Emoji: Folded hands (light skin tone)"> You have no idea how much those words will affect others
And now i am 47kg and STILL ADA ORANG KOMEN ON MY CHEEKS! Oh god rasa nak marah betul
https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="😔" title="Pensive face" aria-label="Emoji: Pensive face"> Dia comment on my throwback photos yang 8 tahun lepas & tanya “kenapa lain”
8 tahun lepas what did you expect
https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="😫" title="Tired face" aria-label="Emoji: Tired face"> 8 tahun lepas when i was underweight and look unhealthy??
I’m sorry for the long rant. I am mad when people comment on other people’s appearance. Tolong lah JANGAN. Korang yang tak pernah rasa memang tak tahu macam mana komen tu bagi effect dekat orang lain
Jangan jugak komen kenapa orang tu kurus sangat, jangan point out jerawat. JANGAN. Believe me they are trying, you don’t have to point out and make them feel bad about themselves
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Thank you for reading. And please be a good person & have some common sense
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