Well, now bumble girl is losing her shit. Again. Starting to understand what chicks feel like when betas can& #39;t take a hint & try to negotiate desire. There is no more pathetic turn-off. Working on a super long post on mistakes in girl game, but let me say a few things here:

1-Many women want LTR moving toward marriage--what they don& #39;t understand is that for men to want to get married, it has to be a clear win for him. OLD naturally produces outcomes where this is almost never the case, as the image match is often guy +2 SMV. https://theredquest.wordpress.com/2020/01/09/game-intelligence-iq-image-match/">https://theredquest.wordpress.com/2020/01/0...

Also, older women have a higher bar to clear: if you& #39;re 35, I expect better fitness, more initiative, & more maturity than a girl who& #39;s 25--bc she& #39;s malleable in a way older women aren& #39;t. & older women still have to be feminine: long hair, dressing sexy, being flirtatious, etc.

Matters, bc younger women just tend to be more feminine naturally (OMG--she& #39;s calling me--again https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="😐" title="Neutral face" aria-label="Emoji: Neutral face">), whereas older women seem to move away from those characteristics. Worse, older women tend to be MORE difficult re: expectations & BS, another reason guys balk on LTR or marriage.

Also: you CAN& #39;T expect a HQ guy to commit to an LTR right away. The girls I& #39;ve dated in their 30s often try to lock me down after 2-3 dates. No. Hard pass. That& #39;s way too fast & like trying to sleep w/ a chick before she& #39;s ready, you& #39;re going to burn the boat. Let it develop.

Final point: going on a date doesn& #39;t mean a chick has to sleep w/ the guy, but it seems a lot of women think that sex means she& #39;s entitled to a relationship. Again, no. Not how it works, & it& #39;s ridiculous to expect that. The solipsism is just fucking astonishing sometimes.

But if you& #39;re negotiating sex for a relationship, you& #39;ve already conceded this isn& #39;t a win for the guy, which brings us full circle. If you want a committed relationship from a man, it HAS to be a clear win for him, meaning he has to think: this is about as good as I can do.