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Well, now bumble girl is losing her shit. Again. Starting to understand what chicks feel like when betas can't take a hint & try to negotiate desire. There is no more pathetic turn-off. Working on a super long post on mistakes in girl game, but let me say a few things here:
1-Many women want LTR moving toward marriage--what they don't understand is that for men to want to get married, it has to be a clear win for him. OLD naturally produces outcomes where this is almost never the case, as the image match is often guy +2 SMV. https://theredquest.wordpress.com/2020/01/09/game-intelligence-iq-image-match/
Also, older women have a higher bar to clear: if you're 35, I expect better fitness, more initiative, & more maturity than a girl who's 25--bc she's malleable in a way older women aren't. & older women still have to be feminine: long hair, dressing sexy, being flirtatious, etc.
Matters, bc younger women just tend to be more feminine naturally (OMG--she's calling me--again 
), whereas older women seem to move away from those characteristics. Worse, older women tend to be MORE difficult re: expectations & BS, another reason guys balk on LTR or marriage.
), whereas older women seem to move away from those characteristics. Worse, older women tend to be MORE difficult re: expectations & BS, another reason guys balk on LTR or marriage.
Also: you CAN'T expect a HQ guy to commit to an LTR right away. The girls I've dated in their 30s often try to lock me down after 2-3 dates. No. Hard pass. That's way too fast & like trying to sleep w/ a chick before she's ready, you're going to burn the boat. Let it develop.
Final point: going on a date doesn't mean a chick has to sleep w/ the guy, but it seems a lot of women think that sex means she's entitled to a relationship. Again, no. Not how it works, & it's ridiculous to expect that. The solipsism is just fucking astonishing sometimes.
But if you're negotiating sex for a relationship, you've already conceded this isn't a win for the guy, which brings us full circle. If you want a committed relationship from a man, it HAS to be a clear win for him, meaning he has to think: this is about as good as I can do.
