a while ago i made this tweet about how women will fight over dudes who sleep on a mattress on the floor and write yelp reviews for a living and today…

guys really be pining over chicks with whom they have no romantic connection/relationship with, often totally ignore them, and in some cases even treat them like shit

...and then write it off as "she's just like that" huh

people often ask me for dating advice since i wrote that one article. here is my only advice: if it's hard, give up

anything you where you have to pull teeth to make it work is gonna be bad

believe people

people who are into you will make time for you. no one is too busy for love (or their own thirst, fwiw)

ppl who want to be with you will make sure it's as seamless as they can make it. that doesn't mean no conflict. it just means you won't be confused