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I think this morning is a good one to talk about my pronouns.
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So you've probably spotted that, instead of saying my pronouns in my bio, I have a spot that tells you to ask. That sentence IS my pronouns-in-bio line, and I'm interested in explaining why.
1. Declaring my pronouns in my bio makes me feel like I'm taking a definitive stance on which pronouns Feel Right, when I actually think none of them feel right except contextually from certain people
2. I am actively working on figuring a lot of gender stuff out, and it's a lot harder for me to feel like I can if I'm leaving a "paper trail" where I was authoritative about my own pronouns
3. I like to have conversations with people! I've made a few friends on this platform where the conversation was started by them asking my pronouns! It feels good to have people check in, as opposed to assume
If you haven't or don't want to check in, please don't use any pronouns for me! 
Also, here's something a friend sent me that sums up my pronoun situation better than this thread could:
Also, here's something a friend sent me that sums up my pronoun situation better than this thread could:
Feel free to ask here or message me if you have good faith questions! If you're going to be rude or hostile, then I will block you
