cheating, in any way and form, is bad. whatever your reason is, CHEATING is still CHEATING. no excuses. but++

if u’re in a manipulative and mentally abusive relationship,, and what i mean by manipulative and mentally abusive is that it is no longer healthy for u and he’s making it hard for u to get out of his toxic circus (saying he’ll kill himself if u leave )

or, worst case scenario,if he’s threatening ur safety,, i suggest that u choose being the “bad” guy and yea GO CHEAT. if it can help u escape this clownery, GO CHEAT. if it’s the only way to cope, GO CHEAT. find ur comfort bcoz gurl. u. deserve. it.

just make sure to replace him with someone worth cheating for. someone who isn’t controlling. who wouldnt tell u what to wear and what not to. who’ll help u grow. who will allow u to have fun. and last but not the least, guys with no traces of toxic masculinity.

this thread is for someone i value so much. i hope u finally wake up, pack ur bags, leave, and get the love u deserve.