Thread by @deviantpiper, lately I've been feeling worried every time i come back online cause [...]

lately I've been feeling worried every time i come back online cause theres always this fear? something might have happened and a lot has been going on indeed and i keep seeing people talking about why they left the community/thinking of doing so and i noticed how most of the-

-times it's because of other people.
now keep in mind, it's ABSOLUTELY valid distancing yourself to take care of yourself, all i wanna say is: DO NOT LET OTHER PEOPLE RUIN THIS PLACE FOR YOU. if they made you think of leaving, they automatically are not worth leaving for and -

-at one point i've come to face that decision too and came to the conclusion that this community is too fuckin important to me to let other people ruin it for me and let them take over and i know that this family here tries to spread nothing but love, but there are a few rotten-

-apples here and there, which is literally impossible to avoid, being this a growing community and just because it's growing, doesnt mean it's gonna go to shit because of people who dont want to follow rules or at least just BEING NICE, which is the simplest thing to do.-

- about the rules too, you cant blame the mods really??? they're not responsible for that, bryan and amelia are since it is THEIR channel and if they had to enforce the rules there must be a reason or more and this is just my opinion but again, we're growing incredibly fast-

-and it's only natural to meet people along the way that do not have the best intentions and will only spread hate for no fuckin reason other than being a shitty person and upsetting people.
but again, theyre not worth leaving or being discouraged for. what we have here is far-

-more important than a bunch of assholes who dont know how to be nice and just decent people, decent enough to live happily with others.
that said, i also wanna make once again a point in saying that validation is important, for sure, but it's important that one looks for it in-

-healthy ways, not by stepping on others. that shit is not what we're about.
we do NOT put others in a bad light or step on them just to put ourselves in a better light or position or whatever, thats just straight up disrespectful and literally goes against what this community-

-is based on and its just as bad as making shit up just for attention.
trust me, there ARE better HEALTHIER ways to get people to interact with you.
toxicity and drama is what ruined most communities, do we really want that to ruin our experience here? is it really worth it-

-to throw it all away? think about it.
last but not least, you ARE important in the community whether you're active or not, whether you do stuff and share stuff or not cause you contribute to it just by being yourself and thats more than enough already. if you feel like you're-

-drifting away, reach out and there'll be plenty of people to have your back, dont be afraid to speak up and dont be afraid of what people may say. tell your truth always and be true to who you are.
you're all such amazing people and most of us are here just to have a good-

-time and feel at home or whatever this community represents/means to you.
all of you deserve to be happy.
if you made it this far in the thread, thank you for reading it all and know that this isnt a way to force you to stay: i just said my opinion as i see things happening.-

-ALL THAT SAID, i love you all so damn much and i hope none of what i said came off in a bad way. i just want you all to know that we're stronger than all the toxicity that might come our way, stronger and better than that. --

-reminder also that dms are open always and remember to speak up if something is bothering you: there can be no change otherwise.

this thread is long af and im sorry and if i got something wrong, please do point it out and we can calmly discuss.

LOVE U ALL PRECIOUS BEANS

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