So there is a social thing I'm really bad at and I always fear that I sounds rude and I realized it's because of the way my family communicates (this isn't a my family is bad thing)
I'm super bad at remembering to ask people how they are or things like that if they've asked me
I'm super bad at remembering to ask people how they are or things like that if they've asked me
The reason for this is that a lot of my interactions with family in particular assume that the question is implicit in my answering "how are you" or my talking about a show or hobby
So my family has always jumped into their answer when I'm done speaking
So my family has always jumped into their answer when I'm done speaking
And the reverse is true too. If I ask what's up and they answer...I just go back and forth and then when they are done answering, I answer the unasked question. And I'm only starting to realize I do this.
I'm saying this bc I know I do this in DMs too, so please know my not asking isn't not caring, typically- it's because I ASSUME YOU'RE GOING TO TELL ME.
Anyway social interaction is weird and formed by your familial interactions
Anyway social interaction is weird and formed by your familial interactions