Those of you that come on here and debate who pays for the baecation every month, have never been on one have you? I can assure there’s not this much discussion when you decide to go and book it. You lot are exhausting!

If your man can afford to pay for the entire trip, great. If not you split it. It’s as simple as that. Sometimes he might pay for the trip whilst you bring spending money. It’s whatever works for your relationship.

There are girls on Twitter who have never even been taken to Brighton, looking down their noses at girls who have split bae cation costs with their man. You have to be careful on this app, people will sit on their imaginary high horse secretly wishing they had what you have.

Do what makes you happy and ignore the relationship police. They don’t even live by their own standards.

Forget what your man CAN afford. A lot of men CAN afford to pay for the entire trip themselves and usually will but you girls act like you’re entitled to it, why? Even if your man can afford it don’t you feel better better in yourself to chip in with spending money?

You see when you’re on holiday with your bae I like being like we’re going wild today and I got it. It doesn’t have to be a 50/50 split in terms of flights and hotel, most men don’t mind sorting that, but spending money, excursions, airport bits and bobs, drinks chip in no?

I think a lot of you girls have this fantasy in your head of dating money men and that’s cool but they’re not mugs you know there’s a lot of rich niggas that aren’t gyal clowns. They don’t mind paying for most of it but they no expect you to pull your weight.

I’ve always had my partner pay for the trip but no way would I laugh at a man that couldn’t afford to do the same.