Is anyone who is decidedly not a morning person partnered with an extreme morning and if so how do you survive? Like why is this person singing and asking me questions that require actual thought before I’ve finished my coffee?

Me: quietly curls up on the couch in the living room late night w/ tea or a final drink & read my book or watch one last tv show while he goes to bed.

Him: gets up at 4 am, wakes me up at 6, immediately wants to be all entangled & singing opera & having important convos. #nope

It’s probably worth noting that in addition to the night/morning dichotomy, I am basically a cat in relationships.