imagine having the mindset your blood and flesh as “menumpang je dalam rumah” when it is a responsibility as parents to provide and to enable not providing because they will move away later. so what are you gonna do about 18 years of them building characters? smh can’t be me.

also imagine accusing children to *want * their own space and privacy to be respected even at home by their own parents is because they cannot “bercinta/otp lettew”... lmao then yall ask why some kids these days don’t respect others privacy when they live with friends in uni https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="😭" title="Loudly crying face" aria-label="Emoji: Loudly crying face">https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="✋🏼" title="Raised hand (medium light skin tone)" aria-label="Emoji: Raised hand (medium light skin tone)">

justifying the act of dumping shit in a child’s room “sebab korang menumpang je sebenarnya dekat rumah parents” https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="🥴" title="Woozy face" aria-label="Emoji: Woozy face"> as if you can’t justify it in other better ways.

you CAN respect and love your parents sm but not wanting to follow their parenting methods. but here you are.

kawan-kawan i dengan i pun family biasa je, only able to provide shared rooms but our parents never justify turning rooms into storage room bc “kami menumpang je sebenarnya” like we need to pay rent for being born.