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I need to start a thread or maybe make a video about some of the realest shit ever. Stuff that people go through but never say anything bc some people are so shitty and so quick to be judge-mental of their actions.
First things first, ALWAYS PUT YOURSELF FIRST. Only YOU have control of becoming a better version of yourself. I’m NOT perfect. & IT took me forever to realize that sometimes things and people are just not meant to be for YOU or in your life.
Never let someone treat you like you are less, or a second option. YOU deserve to be treated like a mfkn QUEEN. & if that ONE person can’t, there’s millions of people you haven’t met yet. Never settle for less. & most definitely do NOT settle bc “your friends” have...
Or just bc “you’re getting older and don’t have your shit together yet.”
If YOU have to repeat yourself over and over again over certain things to your “partner” and there is NO improvement, then he probably doesn’t care, is too comfortable with you, or is just dumb & acting like the victim.
Stop letting people take advantage of YOU. That goes for family, partners, friends, employers ETC. Speak the fck up. Something I use to struggle with.
Start saying NO. YOU really can’t please everyone. Make yourself happy first. Something I’m also learning how to do.
Omfg I forgot the most important one, STOP letting social media fool you. Not everything is what it seems like. Not saying that it doesn’t exist Bc I believe it does, but stop comparing yourself or your relationship based off of others.
I also high key believe that someone can make you crazy! Not literally, but to the point where you do and say things that you have never said or done before. I believe that a relationship can give you anxiety/depression.
Overthinking is for the weak...I am still weak myself but only becoming a better version of myself everyday. 
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I wish I could’ve been as more open as I am today, a year ago. I’ll never bash on anyone I’ve dated, or spoken to bc at a point they were apart of my life. A life I chose for them to be apart of. I can be petty, but I always remember that I AM BETTER than that.
I wasn’t and will never be perfect. And/or will never think I am better than anyone else. I am me. I’m confident enough to know what I have to offer. I will never belittle someone Bc I actually know what it feels like for someone to belittle YOU.
I do NOT do shit for clout. Just an FYI. I say and do shit just simply because I please to. Bc it makes me happy. & I’m not gonna lie, my 4 year relationship wasnt perfect. But I loved it. I cherished it. But unfortunately had to let it go. It wasn’t an easy breakup. It was one
Of the hardest things I had to do. For myself. For him. & my go to was always the easiest of them all.... alcohol. It was the quickest way to forget about the pain. Not only that but losing one of closest cousins took a toll on me as well.
Fuck what other people think...shit including myself. DO YOU. Stop trying to impress people. Impress yourself. Spoil yourself. People really out here worried bout shit that does NOT concern them. https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="🙂" title="Slightly smiling face" aria-label="Emoji: Slightly smiling face"> shit i catch myself doing that, & I start telling myself to stfu & keep it moving
None of my damn business..I really used to struggle on caring about what people used to think about be. But only got my feelings hurt https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="😂" title="Face with tears of joy" aria-label="Emoji: Face with tears of joy"> I really give no fucks about who said this n that or if you like me or not bc Im busy getting $ to buy myself shit https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="😂" title="Face with tears of joy" aria-label="Emoji: Face with tears of joy">https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="✌🏻" title="Victory hand (light skin tone)" aria-label="Emoji: Victory hand (light skin tone)">
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I will NEVER justify any of my actions. I did what I did and this is me speaking in general. Not something in specific.
Enough about partners ... now I’m speaking about friendships bc believe it or not that’s something people also don’t speak about bc people are afraid to lose people and not be lonely.
If your friendship IS NOT GENUINE I DO NOT WANT IT. https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="🗣" title="Speaking head in silhouette" aria-label="Emoji: Speaking head in silhouette">https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="🗣" title="Speaking head in silhouette" aria-label="Emoji: Speaking head in silhouette">https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="🗣" title="Speaking head in silhouette" aria-label="Emoji: Speaking head in silhouette"> I want to see my friends do better and I for damn sure expect that they want to see me doing better.
If you aren’t supporting each other, are you really friends? I’m that friend that will always understand that LIFE happens. People get married, some have babies, & well shit life moves on. With or without.
I don’t think you have to text someone every single day to show your friendship. As long as you check up on them/me & you genuinely care, then in my opinion we’re good.
Don’t be someone you’re really not to fit in. Be THE trend. Lol https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="😂" title="Face with tears of joy" aria-label="Emoji: Face with tears of joy"> I always used to listen to “my bestfriend” when in reality the girl didn’t even care about anyone but herself. I was stupid bc I used to think that without her I couldn’t do shit.
Silly me. Btw I am still friends with everyone and she isn’t. https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="😐" title="Neutral face" aria-label="Emoji: Neutral face"> sad bc she was cool af. Anyway, if you ever wanna do something don’t tell anyone. Just DO IT. I’ve realized that sometimes when you tell people your plans they either wanna bring you down or they’ll do it before you
To attempt to sleep or to keep speaking my mind https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="😂" title="Face with tears of joy" aria-label="Emoji: Face with tears of joy">https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="😂" title="Face with tears of joy" aria-label="Emoji: Face with tears of joy">https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="😂" title="Face with tears of joy" aria-label="Emoji: Face with tears of joy">https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="😂" title="Face with tears of joy" aria-label="Emoji: Face with tears of joy">
