nonbinary identities are identities that are not the two binary ones. the pronouns they can use are not limited to they and them. it is a broad spectrum of identities with a variety of pronoun usage. people that are not binary do not owe you androgynous pronoun usage.

i don't care what you are arguing against, it is not okay to force all non binary identities into they/them for the sake of saying pronouns = gender. pronouns = gender for BINARY people. don't be a piece of shit just to argue against h/h lesbians.