I think it& #39;s great when a spouse puts time and effort into exploring how to continue a marriage if their partner comes out and transitions. But I think it& #39;s unfair to demonize a spouse for leaving because of it. People are allowed to seek their own version of happiness.
But can we like not go to the whole "widow" thing? That& #39;s kinda weird and disrespectful to me because I& #39;m still alive, and I& #39;m still me in so many ways.
At the same time, I’m not “me” in a lot of the ways I used to be "me" to survive…
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At the same time, I’m not “me” in a lot of the ways I used to be "me" to survive…
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Pretending I& #39;m still "me” like I used to be me is invalidating. I transitioned because I wasn& #39;t being the me I am now. A lot of differences between the two mes are reasons my ex was attracted to old me. I think *expecting* her romantic/sexual attractions to change is unfair.
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